Mary Loves

The Little Things...

2012-02-02T05:48:00.000-08:00

The end of another week. Well, it's the end of mine anyway. We are taking off tomorrow morning for a weekend in Vermont. I'm looking forward to good meals, interesting conversation, beautiful mountains, fun skiing, and even the long drives with my husband. All of it will be kid-free, and although I always miss my boys when we're apart, these little breaks are good for all of us.

These are just a few pictures I snapped around the house. The little pot of succulents has been making me happy since my mom gave it to me for Christmas. (Thanks Mom!) I think now that the boys are getting a little older, perhaps I can bring more plants into the house.

Below is my "to-read" stack of books. The pile grows on my nightstand. I am currently making my way through The Hunger Games trilogy - a guilty pleasure to be sure, but one I'm thoroughly enjoying. Any suggestions on what I should pick up next?

I've gained so much by learning to appreciate and express gratitude for all the little things in life. Plants, books, music, and road trips are just a few of the things I am grateful for today. What about you?

Little Helpers, Sunsets, and Clean Kitchens

2012-02-01T09:07:00.000-08:00

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. Spending time one-on-one with each of my boys is so much fun. On Sunday, I got to spend the day with my little guy, Nathan. We had a full day. Scooters, play-doh, puzzles... He helped me make pumpkin-cranberry muffins. Usually his older brother is my helper, but Nathan loved getting a chance to participate. He very carefully measured everything, stirred, poured, and put muffin liners in. He was so proud at the results.

2. When we got home at the end of the day, we could see the sun dipping down over the river, turning the sky a dark orange. We watched for several minutes while it then turned pink. We got cold and ran inside, but then we watched it turn purple.

3. A clean kitchen. After working on it for years, I've finally come to appreciate some of my daily chores, including washing dishes and cleaning the counters after dinner. I think I will appreciate it even more in my new kitchen, but even now I can appreciate the feeling of satisfaction that comes with ending the day with things in their proper place.

Weekend Recap

2012-01-30T07:55:00.000-08:00

photo of the Ladies of Downton Abbey by Jason Bell for British Vogue

It was a small and quiet winter weekend. Nothing wrong with that. Here are the highlights:

*A visit to the mall on Saturday afternoon. I don't typically do malls, but both pairs of my jeans developed knee-holes in the same week. I went by myself so I could walk straight to the Lucky store. I walked out with three new pairs and hopefully won't have to return to the mall again for a very long time. (I do hate shopping, but I will admit that the afternoon alone-time was quite nice.)

*I am caught up on Downton Abbey. Yes, it is as good as everyone says.

*The usual Saturday morning library visit, playing games, and spending time outside.

*We watched the movie 50/50. It is wonderful. It is an emotional ride, as you'd expect given the premise, but one that is totally worth taking.

*I got to spend Sunday with Nathan, my little guy, and Kevin took Aaron skiing. I had a very nice day at home, cleaning and baking and playing; and they had a great time skiing together for the first time.

Goals for the week:

1. Stretch every morning.

2. Reinstitute the "10 minutes of relaxation after the boys go to bed" rule. I miss them and I need them.

3. Call my sister. Email my cousin. Confirm the timing of our trip to Wilmington. I shouldn't lament my long-distance family if I'm not doing my part to keep in touch.

4. Patience.

5. Buy some decent ski gloves. Mine are pitiful, and it's going to be cold in Vermont this weekend! (Did I mention I'm going to Vermont this weekend? Yay!)

Below is a little peek at yesterday's skiing. Only for aunts and grandmothers and other interested parties. Try not to notice the brown grass in the background - the lack of snow is still a little depressing, but at least they can make it for us on the mountain. Aaron is doing great. He is a serious and methodical and careful skier, which I love.

Family...

2012-01-27T11:00:00.000-08:00

I stumbled across a picture of me and my sisters that had fallen behind the refrigerator. It was taken many years ago - we were grown up, but long before husbands and babies. Then my son asked me when he'd get to see his cousin Zach again, and I had to tell him that he wouldn't see him until next Christmas.

All of a sudden I felt very far away from my family.

I hate how far away my family lives from me. I have six brothers and sisters. (There are 20 years between the oldest and youngest, and we didn't all live together growing up. We have one of those fabulously complicated modern families.) So there are seven of us. We live in Las Vegas, Houston, Canton (Ohio), near Philadelphia, Wilmington (North Carolina), Barcelona, and Boston. Needless to say, we don't see each other all that often. The last time all seven of us were together was my wedding - almost 10 years ago. The last time before that? Can't remember.

Whenever I talk to people whose family lives near them, I get insanely jealous. How fun would it be to be able to have my sisters over for Sunday brunch? Have my mom over for dinner? Go to a baseball game with my brother? Have my sons know their uncles, their cousins? The funny thing is that when I think about where each of us ended up, it seems obvious that we're all exactly where we should be. (With the possible exception of my older sister in Ohio - she's a California girl at heart.)

The distance was easier to handle when we were younger. Our dad drew us together at holidays at least. Now that he's gone, we don't have that pull. My mom and two of my sisters have all been together for Christmas almost every year since then. However, our growing families are now making that difficult as well. Even talking on the phone regularly requires some planning due to time differences and little kid schedules. Facebook helps us connect, but it will never replace an actual conversation.

Oh, I'm rambling. I'm sorry. I think I've forgotten why I started writing this. Perhaps to say something profound about the changing phases of life and the special bonds of sisters. But then if you have a sister, you already know.

I don't know.

I guess I just miss my family.

First Aid Kit - The Lion's Roar

2012-01-27T05:00:00.000-08:00

First Aid Kit is a duo comprised of sisters, Johanna and Klara, from Stockholm. They just released a new album, entitled The Lion's Roar. They have a cool folksy vibe, and if you like beautiful voices and harmonies, then give them a listen. I've been singing "Emmylou" all week.

Grapefruit, Calluses, and Beauty

2012-01-25T08:35:00.000-08:00

photo credit: Alicia Bock

It's going to be pretty quiet on the blog this week, but I did want to take a few minutes to document a few beautiful things. I'll be back soon.

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. I had forgotten how much I like grapefruit. I picked up a few and have been having a half of a ruby red grapefruit each morning for breakfast. Such a sweet and juicy way to start the day.

2. I've kept my resolution so far, and the tips of my fingers on my left hand are hard and callused as a result. I actually like carrying that reminder around with me every day.

3. My five-year-old commented about one of his friends. "She's beautiful", he said. It is the first time I've heard him apply this word to someone, so I asked him why he thinks she's beautiful. (Which she is - she's an adorable little girl who has already claimed that she's going to marry my son.) He responded: "She's silly and she makes me laugh." Isn't that the best answer ever?

Now That's More Like It...

2012-01-20T07:19:00.000-08:00

It finally looks like Winter. We're supposed to get a couple more inches tonight, too. Funny how the lack of snow this year has made me long for it. I know I will be ready for warmer weather in a couple months, but I really do appreciate the seasons. Winter is beautiful - the colors of brown, white, gray, and blue taking the lead. The clean palette somehow in sync with the clean slate that comes with the start of the new year. The cold, quiet days allow more time for reflection, snuggling, and baking.

Let's not forget playing. Playing outside in the cold is not much fun...without snow, that is. With snow, it's tremendous fun! I expect to do some sledding tomorrow, and more skiing on Sunday. Wheee!

They're calling for rain on Monday. Bleh. Before it comes, I'm going to appreciate the heck out of this pretty white weekend.

Resolutions

2012-01-19T06:19:00.000-08:00

photo credit: Alela Diane (Twitter)

As I mentioned, I've generally stopped doing resolutions. I'm always looking for ways to improve. To add more joy into my life. To express gratitude for everything I have. To spend time doing the things I love. To learn. To be kind to others.

When Gabrielle from Design Mom asked me to participate in one of her 'Design Mom Asks' posts, I was happy to oblige. The prompt she provided was this: It’s a few weeks into the New Year, and my million and one resolutions have been whittled down to…

I was able to come up with one specific goal for the year. Go over to Design Mom to see how I responded.

Battling Grumpiness...

2012-01-19T03:46:00.000-08:00

Is this week really a short one? It sure doesn't feel like it. In general, I've been liking January's vibe this year. The optimism that comes with the start of the new year has kept its momentum. On the weekends, that is. My weekdays are still filled with more stress and grumpiness than I'd care to admit. This week has more stress, but I'm battling the grumpiness with all I've got. I've been exercising, drinking more water, dancing with my boys, making plans, and playing guitar. I must say...it's working.

I've also continued to seek and find lots of inspiration in my blog reader, and I thought I'd share a few posts I've enjoyed reading recently...

You really have to check out the latest home tour on Stephmodo. It's fabulous.

I love the way this girl writes. This post is a great one.

The Alabama Shakes' debut album arrives in April. Listening to them makes me smile. I love watching and listening to people who so obviously love making music.

A beautiful letter written by Ansel Adams to his best friend.

Another guest post is up over at Lou, Boos, and Shoes. This time by the wonderful Tania Kindersley, whose own blog, 'Backwards in High Heels', is another of my favorites.

Morning Snow, Broom Guitars, and Kindergarten

2012-01-18T07:47:00.000-08:00

image via pinterest

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. I woke up yesterday and saw a beautiful winter wonderland out my window. Just an inch or two of snow covering everything. Not enough to require a shovel, but enough to make everything look magical and peaceful. It didn't last long, though...it turned to rain and washed away by the end of the day. Tease.

2. My little one really wants a guitar. If only he hadn't smashed the one we got for his older brother a year ago. Maybe he'll be a rock star, and he was just practicing his guitar smashing for the future. In the absence of his own guitar, he's been using all sorts of stand-ins around the house. Most recently, the broom. "Playing" and singing 'Old MacDonald' at the top of his lungs. I love watching this, because it means my guitar playing is having an influence. Maybe he really will want to play guitar. His birthday is in July...but if we get him his own, I wonder if he'll smash that one too. I guess we'll find out.

3. I filled out Kindergarten registration forms this week. I got a little misty, but I'm mostly so excited to start the next phase with my kids.

Kitchen Inspiration and House Update

2012-01-18T04:08:00.000-08:00

photo via Better Homes & Gardens

Good news! We met with our new contractor yesterday, and we are getting started with the big Renovation 2012. The first couple months are filled with the boring steps of contracts, schedules, permits, and historical district approvals; but that's okay - I'm just so excited to start!

I continue to save pretty pictures of kitchens, like the one above, for inspiration. I'm also trying to shift gears a little by focusing on the decisions we need to make for our own house. We're remodeling an existing space, and we have a budget, so of course it comes with some limitations. That said, I want it to be a happy and comfortable space that reflects our own style.

Once we reach the demolition phase (I might have to take the day off so I can take a sledgehammer to my current kitchen walls), I'll be sure to post some of the work-in-progress and decisions we make along the way. Can't wait!

Weekend Recap

2012-01-17T07:47:00.000-08:00

Hi! I'm back from a long weekend, and I actually got some decent sleep and feel somewhat refreshed. Woo! A few highlights:

*We received a big package on Saturday. It was promptly colored and turned into a train. We got another big box, the two were put together, windows were cut, and a house was built. The boys covered it with blankets, took flashlights inside, and played. The magic of a big cardboard box never ceases to amaze me.
*We watched "Moneyball". I really enjoyed it, and I thought Brad Pitt was great. I love baseball and find the sport really fascinating, though. I'm not sure that the movie would capture the interest of someone who doesn't love the game.
*Skiing! My big boy and I spent Sunday on the slopes. It really clicked for him, and he wanted to go down by himself over and over and over again. I had to drag him away, which is awesome. I'm thrilled that he's having fun with it.
*After skiing, we played board games in front of the fire, and then we watched a movie. A very nice way to spend an evening.

My goals for this week:
1. Exercise. I want to get two yoga sessions and two sculpting/cardio sessions in. Can I do it?
2. Guitar. So far I've kept my resolution to pick up the guitar every day. As a result, my little one walked around yesterday afternoon using a broom as a guitar and singing. It's good stuff. I'm going to keep it going.
3. Plan a girl's getaway weekend with a good friend of mine.
4. Start researching flights for our next family trip.
5. Buy new jeans. I have two pairs and both of them developed holes in the knees over the weekend.

Looking Forward to the Weekend...

2012-01-13T12:58:00.000-08:00

photo credit: Rebecca Baust at The Daily Muse

Phew has it been a week! Work is at full tilt, and my boys have not been sleeping well, which of course means I have not been sleeping well. And my patience dwindles so rapidly when I'm tired. This morning, my son asked me, very timidly, "Mom, did you get a good night's sleep?" The sub-text being, of course, "Will you be more patient with me tonight?" I'm still weary, but I will try my best to start the weekend off on a positive and happy note.

As an aside, the other night at dinner my son got a pensive look on his face. I asked him what he was thinking about. His response? "I don't need to tell you everything, Mom." That was like a little jolt to my heart. My baby is growing up.

I am looking forward to a quiet weekend, full of relaxation, peace, and skiing. Can I just say one more time that I wish it would snow? All this cold and windy rain is pretty miserable. Mother Nature usually saves that lovely weather for April. Are we going to get a foot of snow for Easter this year to make up for it? Don't answer that. Back to the weekend...

photo credit: Cara at Hide & Seek

Lately...

2012-01-12T04:26:00.000-08:00

Listening to:

Caitlin Rose - Own Side Now - Since receiving a new guitar for Christmas, I find myself especially drawn to guitar music. I've been playing and singing 'Own Side' a lot lately.

Bryan John Appleby - Fire on the Vine - This is simply gorgeous music.

The Barr Brothers - The Barr Brothers - Folk, Rock, Singer/Songwriter, even a little Blues...I love bands that are hard to classify. I am having fun getting to know this Canadian band.

The Black Keys - El Camino - This continues to be our nightly after-dinner dance music. And our commute to school music. And our "hurt my knee and need to cheer up" music. In other words, my boys LOVE this album.

Watching:
The Descendants - We went to see this over the holidays. It was definitely sadder than I expected, but I thought it was wonderful. Not an exciting movie, but a beautiful and moving one. Highly recommend.
Contagion - This was pretty good. The cast was phenomenal - I can't believe how many A-listers are in it - and it was engaging. There was almost too much going on to really connect with any of the characters in any depth, but I enjoyed it.

Reading:

Sebastian Barry - I discovered Sebastian Barry a couple months ago, and I started with On Canaan's Side. His writing is exquisite. It's so beautiful, and it drew me right in. That said, when I finished the book I realized that I didn't really care about the main character very much. She seemed to let life happen to her, and then she reflected on it. The Secret Scripture and A Long Long Way, on the other hand, I enjoyed immensely. All of Barry's novels are either based in Ireland or at least start there, and I enjoyed learning a little about Irish history along the way as well. But mostly, I just love his words.
By Nightfall - I loved The Hours, so I decided to read the latest by Michael Cunningham. I am about halfway through it so far, and I think we've covered about twelve hours. Amazing how he can keep me interested while talking through the specifics of someone's day. I'm liking it so far, but I'm anxious to get to the climactic event. If there is one, what will it be? If there isn't, then why am I reading this?

What are you listening to/watching/reading lately?

Holiday Cards, Skiing, and Beating Smart People

2012-01-11T05:00:00.000-08:00

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. The stack of Holiday cards in a bowl on my dining room buffet. I don't want to put them away just yet. I look at it and think of far-away family and friends. It's like a little bowl of love, and it reminds me to send notes in the mail more often.

2. Skiing! I am so excited to get back on the mountain. I don't think I realized how much I missed it until I got to do it again. Now that my oldest son is learning, I'm excited for us all to get to the slopes more often. Now if only it would snow!

3. Beating my mom at Scrabble and my oldest brother at Words With Friends. These are two of the best puzzlemasters I know, so I feel pretty proud. (It didn't last long, but I enjoyed it while it lasted.)

Meyer Lemon Bars

2012-01-10T04:33:00.001-08:00

photo by Stephanie at Stephmodo

Oh! I almost forgot about dessert!

I picked up a box of Meyer lemons at Costco, mostly because they were so pretty and smelled good. I wasn't really sure what I planned to do with them. Then Stephanie at Stephmodo posted about lemon bars. I love the inspiration I receive from the blogs I follow, and Stephmodo is definitely a great source of all kinds of inspiration!

I made these on Saturday, and they didn't last long. They are delicious! Mine didn't turn out quite as pretty as Stephanie's - I'll have to ask her secret, or perhaps it's just her excellent photography skills - but they tasted awesome. My husband and I kept hitting the pan for more.

Thankfully, my new year's resolutions do not include a diet of any sort, and I still have quite a few lemons left, so I might be making these again this weekend!

Menu of the Week

2012-01-10T04:33:00.000-08:00

I'm determined to get back into a routine of weekly dinner planning. I know how much better it is when I do this, and yet some weeks I just don't get it done. Ah well...all we can do is keep trying. I think all things are like that, aren't they? Anyway, we had a few things leftover from the holidays that we needed to use up, so I used them as inspiration for this week's menu: goat cheese, cream cheese, sliced almonds, parsley, scallions, and tomatoes.

Goat Cheese and Roasted Corn Quesadillas, Yellow Rice, Black Beans - To quote my 5-year-old: "These are my most favorite quesadillas EVER." My boys always gobble these up, even since I started adding chopped zucchini to them.

Pierogies, Parmesan Tomatoes, Peas, Kielbasa - Tomatoes for me, a little kielbasa for my husband and big boy. Just pierogies and peas for the little guy, thank you very much.

Macaroni and Cheese with Butternut Squash, Broccoli - I bought squash at the grocery store without a recipe in mind. I looked at pasta recipes after the fact (my menu planning needs some work...ideally it should happen before the grocery run!), and I decided on this one. I didn't have ricotta, so I used cream cheese instead. Also, a few of the reviews mentioned it turning out rather dry, so I watched it carefully and didn't cook it for nearly as long as the recipe indicated. I was pleasantly surprised with the results - all three of my boys loved it! Hooray!

Chunky Vegetarian Chili, Corn Bread - It's always so great when I can pull something out of my freezer.

Almond-Stuffed Chicken, Green Beans, Mashed Potatoes - The perfect recipe for this week - it will use up the rest of the almonds and parsley, and my boys love it!

Weekend Recap and a Guest Post

2012-01-09T05:00:00.000-08:00

It was our first weekend after the holidays, and it felt a bit quiet. This is not a bad thing. Time to catch up, clean, run errands, and plan. We went to the library, watched movies, played games. My husband and I also opened up the calendar and spent some time talking through the year's events. There is a lot going on!

Sunday was a rather big day - I took my five-year-old to his first day of skiing! I am so incredibly happy to report that it was a success. We had a great day together, and his enthusiasm and determination really shone through. I am looking forward to many more days and weekends spent on the slopes. In fact, I never thought I'd say this, but I now find myself praying for snow!

Also, I wrote a guest post over at Lou, Boos and Shoes, so go check it out! Lou asked several of her blogging friends to contribute to her blog this month, in celebration of her blog's 2nd anniversary. The theme is "a day in the life". I describe a typical day of mine, although it must be said that with two little kids and a busy job, my days very often veer outside the "typical"!

Happy Monday!

A Little Art...

2012-01-05T03:52:00.000-08:00

My husband and I typically don't exchange Christmas presents, but for some reason we felt compelled to this year. Perhaps because we both knew something that the other wanted. I knew he wanted an iPad, and I was happy to oblige. It'll be great for the family to have. But I also wanted to get him something he wouldn't be expecting.

Paul Ferney is an artist currently based in Paris, although his home is San Francisco. You may know him as the husband of Jordan Ferney (Oh Happy Day) or the brother-in-law of Gabrielle Blair (Design Mom). I like his style, and I was intrigued when I saw that he was starting to do commission paintings. I originally thought that a painting would be a nice anniversary present - we'll be celebrating 10 years in September - but Paul plans the commission project around the holidays. And no way could I hold on to it for nine months! So K got an extra present under the tree, and really it's a present for me too.

It was so hard to choose a picture, but I love this one of the boys. I love the water, I love both of them walking forward together, and I love that it reminds me of a happy trip to Maine. It now sits on our mantle, at least until we decide to move it elsewhere.

Isn't it sweet? Looking at it makes me smile.

2011 Recap

2012-01-04T04:03:00.000-08:00

First, let me just say that I am generally not a fan of really long blog posts. That said, sometimes I just can't help myself. I thought I'd do a little summary of 2011, so I started looking through my blog. Then I got a bit carried away. Then I decided to include a picture for every month. And that is how a really long post happens.

Here's a little month-by-month view of some of my 2011 highlights. This was really fun to do, and I love that my blog helps me remember so many of the good things in my life.

January - We played in the snow, saw a crazy movie, and visited friends.

February - More playing in the snow, more movies, and a Civil Wars concert.

March - I cleaned up my blog reader, had an amazing spa weekend with one of my best girlfriends (we need to plan one for this year!), I turned 37, and we visited my family in North Carolina.

April - I hated Spring (April sucks in New England) and made peace with Spring.

May - I started to learn to use my camera (and haven't made much progress since!), made a list of fun things to do over the summer, saw Joy Kills Sorrow in concert, and spent an awesome weekend in Maine.

June - We played in the rain, and we visited my family cottages on Lake Ontario.

July - My baby turned 2, good friends came to visit, I made lots of popsicles and ran through sprinklers, went to Walden Pond and walked through a wildlife sanctuary, and took a trip to my university town. (July was a good month!)

August - We went to the farm, and vacationed in Italy! Florence, San Gimignano, our villa with an awesome pool, a bonus stay in Paris...

September - We gave Summer its last hurray in Maine, learned more about Pearl Jam, and went on several dates.

October - We visited friends and the Bronx Zoo, saw Crooked Still in concert, picked apples, had fun at the Head of the Charles, dressed up for a costume ball, and went trick-or-treating with the cutest superheroes ever.

November - We spent a nice day in Cambridge and the Museum of Natural History, saw The Wooden Sky in concert, and went to Connecticut for Thanksgiving.

December - We made crafts, watched movies, celebrated my big boy's 5th birthday, baked cookies, went to the Boston Pops, welcomed family, played games, went out to lunch, did some shopping, and tasted delicious chocolate fondue on New Year's Eve.

I also discovered a lot of great music, saw some good movies, and read some memorable books.

Good-bye 2011!

Welcome Back

2012-01-03T08:24:00.000-08:00

Here I am...looking up recipes and making yet another grocery list

Happy New Year! I hope you all had a wonderful holiday. Were you able to relax and enjoy December or are you glad the chaos is over? I made it through okay. I wasn't quite as organized as last year, but overall I managed to have a lot of fun and not allow the excess of the season stress me out. I had a fabulous visit with family, and we did all the things you're supposed to do over the holidays: too much food, too much wine, lots of games, and presents, and dancing... I enjoyed a long leisurely lunch with my mom and sister, who, by the way, shared some joyous and shocking news. Christmas miracles abound...

And now it's 2012. Like last year, I've decided against making specific resolutions. Instead, I'm going to continue to focus on taking care of myself, doing things I love to do, and making time for family and friends. I am excited about the start of a new year and am looking forward to many exciting adventures. It already feels like the year is filling up with travel and various events (weddings, graduations...), so we need to prioritize and start to plan everything out. It's all awesome stuff, so I'm excited to get started. First up - ski lessons with my big boy, starting next weekend!

Oh, if only he would sleep this soundly at night!

Striped pajamas and scooters that Santa brought

Joy!

2011-12-26T05:23:00.000-08:00

I'm quite certain I am filled with joy today, surrounded by family. Even with the lack of snow, I'm sure we will have fun enjoying each other's company, eating good food, playing games, and relaxing. I hope you are all having a wonderful holiday week as well!

I probably won't be checking in here until next week. I have many cookies to eat and games to play. I hope you all have a Happy New Year!

Have a joyful New Year!

She & Him - Rockin' Around The Christmas Tree

2011-12-23T05:06:00.000-08:00

This week's music pick comes from my latest addition to the holiday music collection - A Very She & Him Christmas. Happy Christmas!

Neighbors, Lunch Dates, and Bath Oils

2011-12-21T05:00:00.000-08:00

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. Attending a cookie swap with my neighbors. Just a handful of women, eating dinner, drinking wine, and getting to know each other a little better. So nice.

2. A lunch date with my five-year-old. He is a sweet, well-mannered, and very cool little boy. I genuinely love spending time with him. It was fun to get some one-on-one time.

3. I decided to use my lemon-almond bath oil on my skin after showering. It smells fabulous and is helping my incredibly dry skin. It's hard to find time for a bath, but that doesn't mean my bath oil should go to waste!

photo from you are my fave

Weekend Recap

2011-12-19T14:17:00.000-08:00

We went to the Boston Pops' Holiday concert this weekend. It is one of our family's holiday traditions - I have gone every year since I moved to Boston, with one exception of a couple years ago when a blizzard kept me away. I love it. Symphony Hall is one of the best places in the world to hear music, and it's gorgeous to look at as well. I love being able to expose my son to this type of music too. They have late morning concerts that are specifically geared towards families, so while they play some songs in the adult classical variety, they also perform "How the Grinch Stole Christmas" and have a Christmas carol sing-along. It's a great balance. My big boy was so excited to go, and he couldn't wait for Santa to make an appearance. I think maybe next year we'll bring the little guy too.

The other highlight of the weekend was a cookie swap I went to on Sunday evening. I spent the morning baking, and then walked over to a neighbor's house for dinner and wine and cookies. It was a really nice time, and perhaps the start of another annual tradition!

Only six days to go. On my list to do this week...

*Big boy's doctor appointment. Not a fun way to start the week, but what are you going to do?
*Picking up skis for me and the big boy. Definitely way more fun than the doctor. Did I mention we're going to start ski lessons in a couple weeks? Woohoo!
*Trips to Costco, the grocery store, the liquor store, the seafood store, and the cheese shop. We will be filling our house with goodies in preparation for family arriving on Christmas Eve.
*Cooking! I will be making a few dishes in advance to try to make Christmas Day a little lower-maintenance, especially since my usual cooking partner (my sister) will be jet-lagged.
*Have fun! I am working through Wednesday, but then I'm going to enjoy some much-needed time off.

Now if only it would snow!

Caitlin Rose - Shanghai Cigarettes

2011-12-16T05:24:00.000-08:00

Sometimes you actually do discover somebody you might've otherwise missed in those end of year "best of" lists. Caitlin Rose is one of mine for this year. Check her out.

Here's another video that I really liked, but you have to go to YouTube to watch.

Five

2011-12-14T04:03:00.000-08:00

A few things I want to remember about my ridiculously awesome five-year-old boy:

1.  His favorite color is red.
2.  His favorite foods are macaroni and cheese, chicken fingers, and green beans. (Just kidding about the green beans, but they are currently his favorite vegetable.)
3. His favorite fruit is all of them. He has tried every fruit I can lay my hands on. Mango is the only one he scowled at.
4. He likes oatmeal for breakfast. With a little cinnamon and brown sugar sprinkled on top.
5. His favorite TV show is Wordgirl.
6. His favorite outfit consists of a pair of gray corduroys and a long-sleeved t-shirt. Red, of course.
7. He loves playing 'bingo' and 'simon says' at school. He is excellent at listening and paying attention, so he often wins.
8. He has become okay with not winning all the time, though.
9.  His favorite music this year included: The Black Keys, Foster the People ('Pumped Up Kicks'), The Decemberists ('Down by the Water'), and amazingly, Gillian Welch.
10. We are currently reading James and the Giant Peach. Again.
11. His favorite things to do outside are running/chasing, riding his bike, sledding, throwing a frisbee, kicking a ball, flying a kite...actually he loves doing just about anything outside.
12. He asks amazing questions and challenges us all the time. Recent ones include: What is a soul? Why does the wind blow? Why doesn't Santa bring toys to homeless kids? And why are there kids without homes? Why does the Earth only have one moon?
13. He still sleeps with his stuffed penguin, Ernesto.
14. His favorite things to draw are houses, rocket ships, rainbows, and Princess Mommy. (That last one is my favorite.)
15. He wants to be a chef when he grows up.

Melancholia

2011-12-13T05:42:00.000-08:00

We watched "Melancholia" last weekend. I'm trying to figure out what to say about it. I'm not sure it is a movie I can recommend to everyone, because surely there will be many people who will hate it. It is almost indescribably sad, and it is slow, and bizarre, and painful to watch at times. And yet I am very happy that I saw it. It is a movie that will stay with you for days after watching. It is beautiful and fascinating, and the acting is wonderful.

Have you heard of Melancholia? Have you seen it, or do you have any interest in seeing it?

Birthday Celebrations

2011-12-12T07:13:00.000-08:00

Whew! We had a very fun weekend celebrating my son's 5th birthday. On Saturday we hosted a party with his friends at home. Eleven kids plus parents made for a very crowded house, but everyone had a good time. Hide-and-seek, a wooden racecar craft, pin the tail on the donkey, pizza/cake/ice cream, and a red racecar pinata full of goodies. My big boy had a blast! It was such a stark contrast to last year's party, when everyone seemed to cling to their mom's legs, and my son almost cried when everyone sang 'Happy Birthday' to him. This time, they were off and running the moment they hit the door. He smiled when we sang, and he blew out his candles with one try.

On Sunday, we had a house full of family. We ate lunch, enjoyed the second half of the cake, and opened more (!) presents. We spent the rest of the day playing with his new toys. He had many favorites, although the marble run (shown above) was especially fun. I actually had a lot of fun playing with it too!

His actual birthday is on Wednesday. A mid-week birthday calls for an extended celebration, so that's what he's getting. On the actual day, he'll get rice krispie treats to bring to school for his friends, and he'll get to choose what we have for dinner.

Wow that is a lot of celebrating! But hey, he'll only turn five once.

The Holiday Season

2011-12-08T04:03:00.000-08:00

Image from Raceytay's Etsy Shop

Part of the reason I started the season feeling unorganized and scatterbrained is because I failed to make a list. Lists are wonderful things. They are so easy to do, and they never fail to highlight what's really important. Writing this post last year helped me focus on what I wanted to get out of the holiday season, so although the list is nearly identical (this time of year is full of family traditions), I needed to do it again. I am doing this a bit late, so some of these are already complete or underway.

When I think about what I want to do as a family this holiday season, here's what makes the list:

- Make a paper chain for the Christmas tree with the big boy (he doesn't need help this year, so although we still work together, it's even more fun)
- Watch Rudolph while we decorate the tree (with colored lights!)
- Bake something yummy to bring to the neighbors
- Send holiday cards
- Cut paper snowflakes with the big boy to decorate the house (he did these all by himself this year!)
- Attend the Holiday Pops concert at Symphony Hall. (Last year was the big boy's first year attending, and he is so excited to go again.)
- Purchase gifts for a child living in poverty (buying presents for someone you don't know is wonderful, and it initiated a cool conversation with my son about Santa and homeless kids and how fortunate we are to have so much)
- Celebrate St. Nicholas' Day (Dec. 6th - they each got a train in their shoes, and they almost fell down the stairs to get them)
- Games - Beat my mom at Scrabble (one of life's little pleasures, especially since it's rare), play Apples to Apples with family, Hi-Ho Cherry-o with the boys.
- Watch "It's a Wonderful Life" and cry at the end like I always do. I am in such a mood to watch "Little Women" too. That may happen tonight.
- Cookies, cookies, cookies - Some to enjoy on the spot, some to decorate, some to bring to a cookie swap, some to freeze so we can replenish our supply as needed.
- Allow my kids to open a present on Christmas Eve - a new set of pajamas.
- Chocolate fondue and champagne on New Year's Eve.

What's on your list? What are the highlights of your holiday season?

It's a Wonderful Life, Evening Yoga, and Winter Stars

2011-12-07T07:41:00.000-08:00

A good reminder for this (or any) time of year

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. I had such a nice night, addressing holiday cards and watching "It's a Wonderful Life". I'm looking forward to my gift-wrapping night, too. "Miracle on 34th Street" or "Little Women", perhaps?

2. An evening yoga session. I rarely do them, but I never regret it when I do. The boys fell asleep at a reasonable hour, so I took advantage of the quiet time and enjoyed a full hour. I feel limber and graceful and a bit sore in all the right places.

3. A clear night sky. My boys get so excited to see the bright moon, but even more excited when they get to see stars. They don't see them at all in the summer, with its long days, so seeing stars is a bonus saved for these dark winter days.

BONUS: I wrote a guest post over at Contented Me. I finish ten sentences, and you could learn a little more about me. Check it out!

My Favorite Music of 2011

2011-12-06T03:59:00.001-08:00

2011 was a good year for music. This list does not attempt to be a "best of" list, nor do I even understand how anyone can determine what makes one song better than another. This is simply a list of the music I listened to a lot this year. The songs that touched me, made me cry, made me jump up and dance, made me play air drums/guitar, made me sing at the top of my lungs, or just made me happy.

In no particular order...

The Civil Wars - Barton Hollow
Blind Pilot - We Are the Tide
The Decemberists - The King is Dead
Fleet Foxes - Helplessness Blues

Wild Flag - Wild Flag
Feist - Metals
Foo Fighters - Wasting Light
The Black Keys - El Camino

Laura Marling - A Creature I Don't Know
Foster the People - Torches
David Wax Museum - Everything is Saved
Gillian Welch - The Harrow & The Harvest

Bon Iver - Bon Iver
Sarah Jarosz - Follow Me Down
Blitzen Trapper - American Goldwing
Alela Diane - Alela Diane & Wild Divine

Wye Oak - Civilian
The Head and the Heart - The Head and the Heart
Sera Cahoone - Only As the Day Is Long
Kurt Vile - Smoke Ring For My Halo

My Favorite Music of 2011, part 2

2011-12-06T03:59:00.000-08:00

I just couldn't limit my favorites to a single post this year. I got back into my music groove and got to know a lot of really great bands this year. So here is part two of this year's favorites, and I still feel like I'm leaving some good ones out. If you have similar taste and feel like I missed somebody great, let me know! I always love getting to know new artists.

Ryan Adams - Ashes & Fire
Other Lives - Tamer Animals
Good Old War - Good Old War
Amelia Curran - Hunter, Hunter

Bright Eyes - The People's Key
Dawes - Nothing is Wrong
Trent Dabbs - Southerner
Amos Lee - Mission Bell

The Dodos - No Color
The Milk Carton Kids - Prologue (*free download!)
Iron & Wine - Kiss Each Other Clean
Fitz and the Tantrums - Pickin' Up The Pieces

Beastie Boys - Hot Sauce Committee Part Two
The Mountain Goats - All Eternals Deck
The Naked and Famous - Passive Me, Aggressive You
Ivan & Alyosha - Fathers Be King

Adele - 21
The Middle Brother - The Middle Brother
Josh Bray - Whisky & Wool
The Wooden Sky - If I Don't Come Home You'll Know I'm Gone

Weekend Recap

2011-12-05T07:03:00.000-08:00

For the past week, my head has been filled with tasks, both things I want to do and things I need to do. There is so much we want to fit into this short holiday season, and it can easily become overwhelming. However, I had a moment when my head cleared. I smelled someone burning a fire, felt a seasonal chill in the air, and listened to the Christmas music on my radio. A peace came over me. I let it all go and reminded myself that there is plenty of time for the important things.

This weekend, we got our craft on. The big boy wanted to make presents for his grandmas and aunt/uncles again this year, so I chose a few simple ideas and he executed on them. We both had a lot of fun working together on them.

The rest of the weekend was pretty quiet, which is nice, since the rest of the month won't be. Some time spent at the library and with the resulting pile of Christmas books at home. We ate, drank wine, watched a movie. Played outside. The simple things.

Next weekend: The big boy's 5th birthday party. We are just having some of his friends over to the house for a simple party, but it still seems like there is so much to prepare for it. I am almost ready - the pinata is filled, the pin the tail on the donkey is on the wall, the craft is ready for them to make. Food, drinks, balloons, and a cake, and we're ready!

Wild Flag - Romance

2011-12-02T05:00:00.000-08:00

Wild Flag's debut album makes me so happy. I listen to it and I want to play the drums. I want to go to a dark, crowded place so I can jump up and down and not look like an idiot. Or, I just want to be home alone so I can turn them up loud and dance around. I love that these are women my age and older, proving that they can still rock out. They kick ass. And they make me happy.

via last.fm

At This Moment...

2011-11-30T17:00:00.000-08:00

via pinterest

...My head is swirling. I need to make a list of the things I want to do this month and plan them out. Right now they're just a big beautiful jumble in my head. Cookies and crafts and party games and gifts...

...The tree is up and sparkling in all its colorful glory. Colored lights can be just as cozy and peaceful as white lights.

...I'm listening to She & Him Christmas, the latest addition to my holiday music collection. I love that they can sound old-school and fresh at the same time.

...We (and by we, I mean those two little boys) have broken two ornaments so far, in the three days we've had the tree up. Wonder how many more we'll lose...

...The house is a disaster. The dining room table is yet again filled with stuff. Christmas cards, scraps of paper from tonight's paper-chain-making, the mail, my purse...it's a bad scene. I haven't cleaned up the kitchen from dinner yet either.

...I'm eating a Dove dark chocolate. I gave up ice cream for the cold season, but I still need a little bit of sweet at night. Sometimes just a little piece of chocolate is enough.

...I'm exhausted. Managing two little boys through dinner and bedtime saps every ounce of energy out of me. I'm tired of talking about how I'm tired, though.

...Ooh, now Sufjan Stevens is on. Very cool Christmas album. (I like the traditional stuff too - Nat King Cole and Frank Sinatra and the Boston Pops are all represented.)

...My little boy is shaking his door latch. He recently moved into a bed, and it did not take him long to learn how to get out of it. He now refuses to stay in bed. What can I do to convince him how utterly divine sleep really is? I think I hear him in the hall now. I guess I should go put him back to bed...

See? Colored lights can be cozy too...

Make an Entrance

2011-11-29T08:29:00.000-08:00

via the lettered cottage

We need something in our front entryway. It is a very small space right inside the front door, but it needs something. A bench for sure. And a coat rack of some sort. Right now all we have is a pile of shoes against the wall, and coats often end up on the dining room chairs. (Rapidly climbing my list of all-time biggest pet peeves.)

Here are a few pictures I've pinned recently. I'm becoming inspired and more and more motivated to find something to complete this space. Anybody know where I can get a cool bench like the one above?

designed by Miles Redd via Two Ellie

via the paper dialogues

Thanksgiving Recap and Goals

2011-11-28T05:03:00.000-08:00

This year's version of the soup can turkey. His name is Tommy.

What a nice long holiday weekend. I adore Thanksgiving. It's the only holiday with no cards or gifts or expectations outside of spending time with family, eating good food, and being thankful. Awesome.

A few highlights:

*I love family traditions. The soup can turkey (see above). Inspired by Sara, I think next year we'll either do a gratitude tree; or if we stick with the turkey, perhaps we'll have everyone write what they're thankful for on the turkey feathers. Love it!

*Food. My favorites: cheese plate, celery sticks with chive cream cheese, bread bowl with veggie dip, honey-glazed carrots, fresh cranberry sauce, and leftover turkey sandwiches. My big boy eats them the same way I do: cold turkey, wheat bread, mayo, salt/pepper, dipped in cranberry sauce. Yum. (Shh...don't tell anybody, but I didn't eat any turkey on Thanksgiving Day - I waited for the leftovers.)

*Great weather. It allowed us to get outside to take walks and ride bikes a lot.

*The family bake-off! I made a chocolate-pistachio torte, and my sister-in-law made a spicy pumpkin cake with cream cheese and coconut frosting. She won. I'm still not sure how, because I personally preferred my own, but I must concede that she got more votes. I think it was the frosting. I will say, though, that mine was just as good on day 4.

*A night out. We left the kids home with Grandma and went out with my husband's sisters and spouses. We went to quite possibly the best burger place I've ever been to. It definitely was the best veggie burger I've ever had. K's burger had gorgonzola, bacon, and arugula. Oh, and the fries had this dipping sauce that must have some addictive drug in it, because I found myself wanting to lick the container it came in. We went out for dinner and drinks, and we had a fun night. It's very rare that we all get to go out like that, and it made the weekend extra special.

And now the countdown to Christmas has begun. We decorated the tree yesterday, and my big boy has begun his daily requests for candy canes. Before Christmas, though, we have a 5th birthday to celebrate! There is much to be done.

A few goals for the week:

1. Extend the feeling of gratitude that Thanksgiving brings and carry it throughout the season.

2. Buy pinata fillings. Find a good recipe for yellow cake with chocolate frosting. And other birthday party preparations.

3. Exercise. Remove some of the jiggle I added last week.

4. Start the holiday cards.

5. Pick out cookie recipe contenders. Do you have a favorite?

Happy!

2011-11-23T05:16:00.000-08:00

I'm off to spend a few days with family, cooking and eating turkey and drinking wine and playing games and talking and having fun. I will spend some time reflecting on all the things that I have in my life - there is so much for which to be grateful. Happy Thanksgiving!

Overheard...

2011-11-22T05:40:00.000-08:00

via andrea's flickr

My big boy: "Dad, what is your favorite color?"
pause.
My big boy: "Is it white?"
K: "No, it's not white."
My big boy: "Well then why do you want to have white lights on the Christmas tree?"

HA! As predicted, my husband is learning to deal with the fact that we will be having colored lights on the tree for a while. A long while, I predict.

My husband is a white-lights person, and I am a colored-lights person. Before kids, we alternated years as a compromise. But the kids are solidly on my side now.

Weekend Recap and Goals

2011-11-21T06:46:00.000-08:00

This was one of those weekends that flew by (of course don't they all?), and now looking back, I can't really remember what we did. I'm sure there was some playing outside. I seem to recall kicking the soccer ball and throwing a frisbee. What else? Hmmm...

*Hair cuts. For my handsome boys. I, on the other hand, still need one.

*Birthday party with my big boy. Twenty-five kids jumping on bouncy houses and mazes and going down the tallest inflatable slide ever. My big boy had a blast.

*We watched Crazy Stupid Love, which is cute. I think that completes my year of Ryan Gosling. Once again I must say: he's a badass.

*I made oatmeal cookies with my big boy. Chocolate chips in half for the boys, raisins in the other half for me. I haven't made good old-fashioned oatmeal raisin cookies in a long time. They are goooooood.

*Strategized about Christmas. Picked out Santa's gifts and talked about what to get others. I feel really behind on this, but just a few clicks of the mouse will get me caught up. Hooray, online shopping!

A few goals for the week:

1. Get started on that gift shopping.

2. Enjoy a happy Thanksgiving with family and remember all that I have to be thankful for.

3. Make a scrumptious dessert for this year's bake-off and beat my sister-in-law!

4. Do a long yoga session tomorrow in preparation for the excess that will follow.

5. Set up my Christmas card station - to begin next week!

Blitzen Trapper - Love The Way You Walk Away

2011-11-18T05:07:00.000-08:00

This week's music comes from Blitzen Trapper. I first started listening to this band a few years ago, with the album Furr. I actually posted the title track here. I liked them immediately, but I didn't fall in love. Furr seemed inconsistent to me, and while I really liked about half of the album, it didn't feel like the complete package. They have only gotten better and better since then. Destroyer of the Void was one of my favorite albums last year, and their latest, called American Goldwing, has gotten a lot of play since it came out a couple months ago. Check them out!

Family, Raking Leaves, and Good-Night Kisses

2011-11-16T17:55:00.000-08:00

Yesterday I was stunned and heartbroken to learn that my cousin's little girl - not quite two years old - was diagnosed with leukemia. I hugged my little guy extra tight last night and kept my cousin and his family in my thoughts, where they will remain until we receive the news that their little girl has fully recovered.

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. My family. Upon hearing the horrible news, the entire family network sprung into action. I can feel the love and support being sent to that little girl in Chicago, so I'm confident that she can feel it too.

Anything else pales in comparison, but let us not forget to focus on the everyday beauty in our lives and not take anything for granted...

2. The simple pleasure of raking leaves. For me, it's the resulting sore arms and clean yard that provide satisfaction, as well as spending the day outside in the crisp Fall air. For my boys, it's the fun of running through and jumping into leaf piles.

3. I went in to check on the boys before heading to bed, as I always do. When I kissed my little one on his forehead, he opened his eyes and said, "Wait! Mama, I forgot to give you a kiss!" Then he sat up and gave me a wet one right on the lips. It was 10:30 and he had been in bed and asleep for three hours. After planting a kiss on me, he smiled and fell face down back onto his pillow.

Do me a favor, will you? Send some positive thoughts out into the universe toward this little cutie...

photo by her mom at The Smallest Sparrow photography

Menu of the Week

2011-11-15T05:41:00.000-08:00

first three pictures from Cooking Light; the fourth is from Martha Stewart

I've been getting lazy in the meal-planning department. Last week, I went to the grocery store without a list and had to go back the next day when I realized that I couldn't come up with anything to make for dinner! Pitiful. I get extra lazy when the husband is out of town, which has been most weeks this year, so I need a bit more motivation to put a plan together. Having to go to the grocery store twice in one week should do it.

I can't really call this a menu of the week, but here are a few of the dishes we've enjoyed over the last two weeks, with several of these dinners mixed in.

Spicy Chicken Cakes with Horseradish Aioli, Mashed Sweet Potatoes, Roasted Asparagus

Goat Cheese and Roasted Corn Quesadillas, Black Beans, Yellow Rice

Maple-Dijon Salmon, Brown Rice, Green Beans

Roasted Chicken Thighs Provencal

Penne with Creamy Pumpkin Sauce, Salad (Arugula, Walnuts, Pear, Balsamic Fig dressing)

Rainy or Cold Afternoon?

2011-11-15T05:00:00.000-08:00

Here's an easy one to keep your kid occupied. Inspired by a picture I saw on Pinterest, we put this together on Sunday. I think the picture is pretty self-explanatory. We kept ours very simple, using paper towel rolls glued onto a flat piece of cardboard. We tested out lots of different things - balls, cars, trains - but the balls (bouncy or otherwise) worked the best. We did have to make a few modifications - added a couple guardrails, etc - but I think that was the best part. The trial and error, figuring out how to make it work better. A fun and super easy activity!

Weekend Recap

2011-11-14T06:00:00.000-08:00

I love the chokeberry bush in front of our house. My husband and I have made many mistakes choosing plants and bushes for our yard, but this was one of the best choices we (and by we, I mean he) made. It's the perfect shape for its spot, and it turns the most brilliant red in the Fall. I love it.

How was your weekend? Friday was a holiday here, so we got a long weekend. I love love love long weekends. Here are a few highlights:

*K and I went out on Friday night. We went to dinner and watched the Carolina basketball game, then went to a club to watch a couple bands. The headliner was The Wooden Sky, which was really good. It was a fun night, but we didn't get to bed until after 2AM. I may be getting too old for that.

*We finally got the bed for our little guy! The mattress I ordered was the wrong one, so we ended up spending Saturday morning purchasing and picking up a mattress. It was worth it to get it done. He loves his bed. I am a little misty at the thought of no longer having a crib in the house - the baby years are behind me now - but I am mostly excited at moving on to the next phase.

*We watched the last Harry Potter movie on Saturday night. As expected, it was great. I can't believe the entire series is over. I am looking forward to reading the books again in a few years with my boys.

*Sunday involved mostly raking and cleaning up the yard. The weather was beautiful, and the boys had fun playing outside while we worked. They actually helped for a while. The leaves are now mostly gone, and Thanksgiving is right around the corner.

I need to get a lot done this week to prepare for next week's holiday and the official start to the festive season. Birthday party invitations, pinata fillings, menus, gifts....so much to do, but it's all very fun. Have a great week!

The Wooden Sky

2011-11-13T13:25:00.000-08:00

This week's pick is from the band we went to see Friday night. They are from Toronto, and they're called The Wooden Sky. We saw them in a really small and intimate venue, and they put on a good show. Enjoy!

Go Heels!

2011-11-12T15:42:00.000-08:00

Obviously I was watching the game and rooting for my Heels, but I couldn't help watching the sky as well. What an absolutely stunning backdrop for a basketball game. Even President Obama enjoyed it. I did too, especially since Carolina won!

Recently Read - Cutting for Stone

2011-11-10T06:15:00.000-08:00

Summary: Marion and Shiva Stone are twin brothers born of a secret union between a beautiful Indian nun and a brash British surgeon. Orphaned by their mother’s death and their father’s disappearance, bound together by a preternatural connection and a shared fascination with medicine, the twins come of age as Ethiopia hovers on the brink of revolution.

Moving from Addis Ababa to New York City and back again, Cutting for Stone is an unforgettable story of love and betrayal, medicine and ordinary miracles—and two brothers whose fates are forever intertwined. -- Vintage

I loved this book. It is a fat novel that requires some effort to get through, but it is totally worth it. It is an ambitious and complex narrative, and the writing is beautiful. My only critique is that while the medicine is an essential part to the story, there are a few parts that are told in an excruciating and seemingly unnecessary level of detail. I found them to be a bit distracting and wanted to get back to the story. It's a small criticism, though. In other places, the medical details are a fascinating part of the book. Overall, the book is beautiful, and I truly cared about all of the characters. I highly recommend.

What To Make for Dinner...

2011-11-10T05:47:00.000-08:00

photos via here, here, here, and here

...when you don't know what to make for dinner. I'm sure we all have a list of these. Stand-by meals. The ones we always have the ingredients for, the ones we make when we're feeling lazy or just don't have the energy to pull something new together. Here is what's on my list:

Quesadillas - I always have tortillas, black beans, and cheese (I keep shredded cheese in the freezer) on hand. I add to that whatever I might need to use up - half a red pepper, cilantro, corn...
Pasta - This is on everyone's list, right? There's nothing easier than pasta and sauce. When I make sauce, I try to freeze half. Also another easy dish in which to throw any extra veggies.
Soup and Grilled Cheese - I always freeze half of my homemade soups, so I often have soup I can pull out to enjoy, but I am certainly not above opening a can of Progresso either. Tomato Basil is a favorite of my boys.
Breakfast - My husband is not a fan of breakfast for dinner, but my boys and I often enjoy eggs or pancakes when he's traveling.
Pizza - I always used to make my own pizzas, but I've chosen to enjoy ordering pizza as an easy way of taking a night off of cooking dinner for the family. We do this once or twice a month. Although...I've also recently enjoyed making mini-pizzas on whole wheat english muffins. Top with a little sauce, fresh mozzarella, and any veggies you might need to use up.
Paninis - Hot sandwiches (ham/turkey and cheese, tuna melt...) are another easy option. I've made these more often since I got a nice big grill pan. Serve with fresh fruit or soup.
Pierogies - I often have a box of these in the freezer. I typically serve with cinnamon apples, so I usually choose this when I have a few apples that need to be used up. And peas, which brings me to vegetables...

It is easy to keep lots of fresh veggies in the house in the summertime, but I find it to be more difficult in the colder months. I always have potatoes, onions, and carrots; and the three veggies I always keep in my freezer are corn, peas, and chopped broccoli. They are super easy to microwave and add to any of these quick meals. They are also vegetables that my boys will eat.

So now I'm curious...What's on your dinner stand-by list?

Singing, Classic Reruns, and Rosemary

2011-11-09T04:45:00.000-08:00

via modern hepburn

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. My little boy has a cough. It woke him up extra early this morning, so I brought him into bed with me to cuddle and hopefully sleep a little more. As he rested on my chest, I started to hear him whispering. It slowly grew in volume until he was singing out loud. "No more monkeys jumping on the bed!" Even when he's not feeling well, he still starts every day with a song.

2. A 'Friends' rerun came on the other night. 'The One Where Everybody Finds Out' about Monica and Chandler. "But they don't know that we know that they know." One of my favorites. I giggled through the whole thing and was then astonished to reflect on the fact that it originally aired 12 years ago! Still a classic.

3. I brought some rosemary from my herb barrel inside. I have a bunch in a vase in my kitchen. After washing my hands or dishes, I can't resist rubbing a couple leaves to release that wonderful smell.

Weekend Recap

2011-11-07T07:29:00.000-08:00

I love this time of year. Everything is quiet. The calm before the storm, perhaps, as the busy holiday season approaches. We occupy ourselves with organizing and cleaning, planting bulbs for the Spring, putting all the Summer toys and furniture and clothes away for the Winter.

I've decided to focus on the beauty of these simple tasks. There is such a satisfaction that results from the seasonal preparations. I'm able to evaluate the things we own, take stock and be grateful. I find that there is little that I want and even less that I need.

A few highlights from the weekend:

*A trip to the library. My big boy is on the verge of reading on his own. He can read individual words but lacks the confidence to tackle sentences just yet. However, with each word successfully read, I can feel his confidence and excitement growing. My excitement is at its peak, as I watch him discover the magic of reading.

*Date night! This was the first time we left while both boys were still awake. Thankfully, they were both happy and did not put up a fuss when we left. Thank you, "Peter Pan". K and I enjoyed dinner, drinks, and a late movie. I had planned on seeing "Moneyball" but somehow got the movie times mixed up. Bummer. We ended up seeing "Ides of March". Great acting - Ryan Gosling is a badass; I am a big fan of Philip Seymour Hoffman, Marisa Tomei, and Paul Giamatti; and one can never have too much George Clooney. It was a good movie.

*My big boy and I made these pumpkin cookies. Yum.

*Sunday morning, we paid another visit to Cambridge. I feel so fortunate to live where we do. We went to The Museum of Natural History. After reading a book that featured dinosaurs last month, I had promised my big boy that we could go to see some real dinosaur bones. He's been eagerly anticipating this trip, and it did not disappoint. Afterwards, we asked him what his favorite part was, and he said, "I loved every single thing there". Well. We followed up our museum visit with a walk through Harvard Yard and brunch in Harvard Square.

So now begins another week. I find my mind shifting towards thoughts of holiday planning. Menus, gifts, activities... I will strive to prepare so that I am fully able to appreciate the beauty of the season.

The Black Keys - Lonely Boy

2011-11-04T10:38:00.000-07:00

The second one is just because I couldn't not share it. The Black Keys' new album arrives next month. I've already pre-ordered it. In the meantime, take a look at this video and smile with me. Happy Friday!

The Devil Whale - Indian

2011-11-04T10:32:00.000-07:00

I couldn't decide what music to share this week. There is so much good stuff out there! I had my iPod on shuffle this morning and realized I haven't shared a lot of my favorites for this year. Being able to buy music online is really bad for my budget, but it sure is a lot of fun.

So I'm sharing two today. First up: The Devil Whale. Based in Salt Lake City, they have been touring all year, including quite a few with The Head and the Heart, who I have also gotten to know this year. Their latest album is called Teeth. The video above includes some interview, so if you want to just hear the song, skip ahead about a minute.

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Kitchen Inspiration and House Update

2011-11-03T05:06:00.000-07:00

photo by Susan Gilmore

I've been trying to find an example of a kitchen with a wood island top and stone countertops....and voila! Here is a beautiful one. Love it. Not sure if I can have the range in a wood island, although I'm being assured that can work.

Here's my kitchen question for the day: Have you ever noticed that none of these beautiful kitchens have dish racks? Do you have one? What kind? I think I've tried all kinds at this point - wooden, metal, plastic - and they're all ugly and impossible to keep clean. I have a dishwasher, but I still have a dish rack for those items that are not dishwasher-safe, including my pots and pans. Please don't tell me you're all disciplined enough to wash, dry, and put away your dishes right away. How do you handle this?

A quick update on Renovation 2012: I've met with three other contractors, and I'm now much more confident that we'll be able to find someone that can get the job done within our budget. Now I'm just waiting on those other estimates to roll in so we can make a call and start to move forward.

Cooperative Weather, Candy, and Silly Faces

2011-11-02T06:48:00.000-07:00

photo from for the love of a house

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. I'm grateful that we were able to have trick-or-treating on October 31st. A lot of towns had to postpone or cancel Halloween! We still had a bit of snow on the ground, but it was a clear and cool night. Perfect for collecting candy with my superheroes.

2. Almond Joys are my candy of choice out of this year's loot. Yum.

3. Sometimes making a silly face is the only way to get a picture of my boys. And sometimes they join in. I love this one of me and my big boy. Capturing a moment.

Halloween 2011

2011-11-01T07:32:00.000-07:00

Happy Halloween - Weekend Recap

2011-10-31T06:44:00.000-07:00

It was a rather strange weekend. Forget what I said on Friday about welcoming Winter with open arms. I mean, I meant it, but I wasn't suggesting it should arrive the very next day! We were in Connecticut, which got a foot of snow! I've never seen anything like it. There were so many fallen trees and power lines, and tons of roads were blocked. My mother-in-law lost power, as did thousands of others. Crazy. You could hear the trees crashing down all over the place. On Saturday night, we left our boys with Grandma and Aunt A, reading to the boys by candlelight.

K and I attended a Halloween Ball, which was a lot of fun. I was pleased with how my costume turned out. The makeup was messier than I would've liked, but that's because we had already lost power, and I was trying to do it with a flashlight and the last bit of daylight! I still think it came out alright. I even won best female costume!

Sunday consisted of breakfast at my sister-in-law's house, since they were lucky enough to still have power. Then we headed home. We didn't get nearly as much snow here, and we thankfully did not lose power, but there was enough snow on the ground for the first sledding session of the weekend. My boys were excited.

Hot chocolate and sledding on the last weekend of October. But that's okay. Hot chocolate and sledding are good. Now if we can quickly shake the colds we are all coming down with.

Tonight will consist of trick-or-treating with Batman and Superman. Sweet. Happy Halloween!

Winter is Coming...

2011-10-28T07:42:00.000-07:00

This still looks like Fall, doesn't it? Well, I better get ready, because Winter is coming. We woke up to a light dusting of snow on the ground. The yard and car were coated with snow and ice. At least the snow convinced my boys to wear their coats - that has been a challenge lately.

I'm going to soak in the last glimpses of red and yellow leaves, and I'm going to maintain a positive attitude about the impending arrival of Winter. There are tons of great things about Winter. So let me appreciate Fall while it's here, but then bring it on!

Snapped while driving past the farm this morning...

There are lots of great things about Winter! Making snowmen, drinking hot cocoa by the fireplace, sledding, skiing (planning to take the big boy to lessons this year), holidays, the start of a new year...

via Snorg Tees

Beautiful Photography, Simple Lunches, and Progress

2011-10-26T04:13:00.000-07:00

photo by Alicia Bock

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. I love so many of Alicia Bock's pictures, but I really love this one and this one. Perhaps it's time to start my holiday wish list.

2. When I work from home, my lunch often consists of whatever needs to be used up in the fridge. Yesterday, this included cherry tomatoes and mozzarella with pesto, cinnamon apples, roasted carrots and onions, and a mini-pizza made from a whole-wheat english muffin, tomato sauce, and cheese (with a little oregano sprinkled on top). Extremely random combination, but it totally hit the spot.

3. I've done an "ass and abs" workout every week for the last month. After the first time, I was walking funny for a couple days. This time around, it felt good, but I wasn't sore the next day. Time to mix it up again.

photo by Alicia Bock

Weekend Recap and Goals

2011-10-24T07:38:00.000-07:00

It was a good weekend. Of course, all weekends are good, aren't they? Even if all they do is offer us a reprieve from the midweek routines. We kept this one pretty low-key, which we almost always do. We all attended a birthday party on Saturday morning, which left the kids sweaty and all hopped up on sugar. On Sunday, we headed to Cambridge to hang out by the river to watch the Head of the Charles regatta. We go every year, and it's a fun excuse to go into the city and play outside. It's a good time, especially when the weather cooperates. Some other highlights:

*My big boy and I baked this apple spice cake. Wow it made the house smell good. I love gingerbread, and this was a very moist version of gingerbread with apple.

*We watched Pearl Jam Twenty on Saturday night. As expected, it was great. I found it fascinating to watch how the band has evolved, and it really made me want to learn more about how my other favorite bands create their music.

*I am loving these dark mornings, on the weekends at least. The boys let us sleep until almost 8AM both days. Ahhhh... The weeks are harder, but I'll take this for a little while longer.

*I spent a couple hours working in the yard, planting bulbs and raking. It was made even more satisfying by having my almost 5-year-old helper beside me.

Goals for the week:

1. No more ice cream. I'm giving it up until Spring. Keep me honest, will you?

2. Set up the big boy bed. It wasn't delivered last week, so let's try again.

3. Enjoy next week's Halloween Ball, costume and all. Fingers crossed that it comes together.

4. Meet with another contracter and line up a couple more.

5. Smile!

It's FRIDAY!

2011-10-21T08:58:00.000-07:00

via hellohellodesign

I love having a blog. I was never able to keep a journal - I tried many times over the years. Somehow, though, I've been able to keep this little blog going for a few years now. It took some time for it to evolve, and it's still evolving I suppose, but I love it. After dumping a bit yesterday, I'm able to let those thoughts go (not entirely - I mean it's not magic or anything) and move on. Today, the world seems a bit brighter. The sun is shining, my son is feeling better, I have already done an hour of yoga and accomplished a lot of work, and it's Friday! So these good feelings will continue. Have a great weekend!

Fitz and the Tantrums - Don't Gotta Work it Out

2011-10-21T08:50:00.000-07:00

Fitz and the Tantrums. His hair is a bit distracting, but the music is so fun. Worthy of turning up loud so you can dance around your kitchen.

photo via Fitz and the Tantrums

Living Life to the Fullest

2011-10-20T17:24:00.000-07:00

Photo by Ann Marie at Age Old Tree

I love Fall, but somehow I'm struggling a bit lately. I find myself asking, "Have I done enough today? Am I living my life to the fullest extent possible? Am I doing all I can to nurture my friendships? Am I showing my best self to my kids?" The questions go on and on. For some reason, the colder season seems to increase this introspection. In the Summer, it seems so much easier - with cookouts and vacations and other opportunities to step outside the daily routines and fill life with joy. It seems like it should be as easy in the Fall - pumpkins, apple-picking, cider, leaves and all that - but it doesn't seem to be that way this year.

photo by Leslie Thomson

Perhaps because the weather has been grayer and wetter than usual. Perhaps because my husband's travel schedule has picked up yet again. Perhaps because although I now see the light at the end of the tunnel at work, it's a long tunnel. Whatever it is, I am fighting hard. I am working to appreciate all that the season has to offer. I just wish it didn't feel like work. I also find myself comparing our lives to others, which is a generally awful thing to do. Everybody has their trials.

But then I think I'm being too hard on myself. Of course we all have those periods when the focus of our lives is on the routines. The school drop-offs, meetings, dinner, bedtime... I have a ridiculous amount of things in my life for which to be grateful, and I am. Truly.

So I will chalk this up to a funk and get back to being the optimist I have become. Time for a cup of hot cider, a few moments of peace, and curling up in bed with a good book. What was I complaining about?

by Scoutie Girl

Hula Hoops, My Bed, and Oatmeal

2011-10-19T05:13:00.000-07:00

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. My big boy inherited his mom's hula-hooping skills. Which is to say, the little dude can rock the hoop. I can't help but smile when I think of that little butt shaking to keep the hoop spinning. I think Santa might need to hook him up with a hoop.

2. I love climbing onto my awesome mattress, and waking up in the morning under my cozy duvet. The cool mornings make it difficult to get out of my extremely comfortable bed, so I give in and hit 'snooze' once or twice. I love my bed.

3. Cold mornings also means we've transitioned to warm breakfasts. A big bowl of oatmeal, sprinkled with cinnamon and brown sugar. Sometimes with some other additions - fruit, walnuts, raisins... It's a nice way to start the day.

Kitchen Inspiration and House Update

2011-10-18T04:10:00.000-07:00

photo by Atlanta Homes & Lifestyles via Pinterest

I met with our contractors again. They were supposed to review the design and reduce the estimate. Well, after doing a more detailed estimate, the cost actually went up! Needless to say, it was not a pleasant conversation. I am feeling a bit defeated at the moment, and I'm worried that this renovation may not happen. I should show you a picture of my current kitchen, just so you have an idea of what I'm living with; but I can't stand looking at it, so it's not going on the blog (until there is an "after" picture to go along with it!). We'll keep looking at pretty ones instead.

Ugh.

So we reviewed the design again, made a bunch of reductions and simplifications, and this time they really are supposed to provide a lower estimate. It doesn't look like they'll be able to get down to where we need them to be, though. In the meantime, I'm asking around for other contractor recommendations so we can get some competing bids. Maybe nobody can do it for what we've budgeted, but we need to find out.

Weekend Recap and Goals

2011-10-17T07:12:00.000-07:00

We started the weekend with chili, cornbread, and Octoberfest beer. That's an excellent start. The weather was fantastic, and we had lots of fun playing. A few other highlights:

*Apple-picking at the farm. I did bake an apple pie, and the house smelled exactly as it should on a cool, blustery October day.

*Mike the music man was playing at the farm, so we decided to make a morning of it. We got lunch, enjoyed some music, hula-hooping, sliding, a hay ride, three huge bags of apples, and free pumpkins for the boys! Oh, and of course let's not forget the cider doughnuts. I am really not a doughnut girl, but once a year I do splurge.

*Crooked Still! Date night consisted of a great show by Crooked Still. They sounded awesome live, and it was so much fun to see them. Another highlight - after the show, they came out to the front of the theater and played a few more songs. I was standing three feet away from them, and the whole crowd was singing along. How fun is that?

Goals for the week:

1. Set up my little boy's "big boy" room. His bed arrives this week.

2. Get a couple other contractor names to get estimates for our big renovation.

3. Schedule a donation. The pile is getting large.

4. Play some guitar. It's good for my soul.

5. Call a friend I haven't talked to in a while.

Okay, so it's not the best picture, but I know what it is, and it makes me smile.

Crooked Still - Half Of What We Know

2011-10-14T11:08:00.000-07:00

This weekend is shaping up to be a good one. I'm thinking chili and corn bread, apple-picking, baking pie, lots of playing outside, and my favorite kind of date night - a concert. We're going to see Crooked Still tomorrow night. I've wanted to see them live for a while, and I'm excited it finally worked out. They are taking next year off from touring, so this is sort of a "farewell for now" tour; and I'm especially happy to get the opportunity to see them play. Have a great weekend!

photo via last.fm

Inspiring Friends, Mums, and Dress Rehearsal

2011-10-12T12:05:00.000-07:00

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. I have some amazing and inspiring friends. I got to watch from afar to see my friend Sara achieve her goal of qualifying for the Boston Marathon. This post literally brought tears to my eyes. Awesome. Now I get to look forward to cheering her on in Boston!

2. Mums. It seems that the front of every house - my own included - has mums and pumpkins on display. More red, orange, yellow, and purple to add to the gorgeous fall landscape.

3. The boys' halloween costumes arrived last night. It sent both of them squealing and chasing each other around the house.

Weekend Recap

2011-10-12T12:04:00.000-07:00

We had a nice long weekend. A couple days in New York with very good friends, and a bonus day to relax at home. Perfect. A few highlights:

*Perfect weather - more like July than October.

*A visit to the Bronx Zoo. The boys loved running around the zoo and looking at animals.

*Saturday afternoon barbecue in the back yard. The kids played while the adults enjoyed drinks and conversation. More and more, the kids are able to attend to themselves, and I like this. A lot.

*Dinner was awesome - so glad we had one more opportunity to eat from the grill. Eggplant, peppers, onions, sausage, steak, burgers...served with mozzarella/tomato/basil salad and a good bottle of wine.

Goals for this week:

1. Take a break from blogging if needed. I know I'm here right now, but I may scale back the posting a bit.

2. Order the necessary items for my little guy's new "big boy" bedroom. I'm already misty at the thought of getting rid of the crib and the rocker...

3. Finish my book and choose the next one.

4. Try to take a few decent pictures of the boys together. This is a monumental task.

5. Bake an apple pie. (The vanilla ice cream is already in the freezer.)

Ryan Adams - Lucky Now

2011-10-07T05:00:00.000-07:00

Ryan Adams has a new CD coming out next week. This makes me a happy girl.

Is it possible to reach the point of owning too much music? ... Nah, I didn't think so either.

via last.fm

The Evening Routine

2011-10-06T05:30:00.000-07:00

via pinterest

Here is what it looked like last time I wrote about this, in the Spring of 2010. My little guy wasn't even one year old at that time, so things have definitely changed. Let's check in and see what the evening routine is like at our house these days.

As usual, all the times are "ish". If there is one thing I've learned, it's that schedules are necessary, but so is flexibility.

5:00 - Get home with the boys. Start to prepare dinner. The boys play.
5:45 - Eat dinner with the boys. Now that everyone is able to feed themselves, I'm actually able to eat, although I do find myself popping up a lot. (more milk, dropped spoon, forgot the dressing...)
6:15 - Clean up or Playtime. The boys usually play together while I clean up the kitchen. Sometimes there's a dance party. Sometimes we chase or wrestle or tickle. Sometimes we build and knock down buildings. I make sure to fit in some playtime every day. If we're having leftovers, I can do it before dinner. Other times, I take some time after dinner and postpone cleanup until after they're in bed.
6:45 - Bathtime. Still doing them together, and right now every other night, depending how messy they were during the day. Brush teeth, put on pajamas.
7:15 - Little guy's bedtime. I read a couple short picture books, sing a song, and say good-night. May he always be so easy.
7:15 - 7:45 - Big boy's storytime. We have been reading a few chapters each night. In-between chapter books, sometimes he'll want to go back to picking out a few picture books.
7:45 - 8:15 - Quality time with the internet - email, blog, reader...maybe make a phone call.
8:15 - 8:45 - Clean up (if I wasn't able to finish earlier), prepare lunches for the next day.
8:45 - Sit down! Enjoy a mug of ice cream with a little TV.
9:15 - 9:45 - Head to bed. Read.
10:30 - 11:00 - Lights out.*

*This is too late. I wake up at 5:45, so I average less than seven hours of sleep each night. I need eight. At least. I need to cut something out of this routine so I can get to bed earlier. I'm eyeing that half-hour I often spend at the computer. If you start seeing less of me here, it hopefully means I'm getting more sleep.

Babies, Silliness, and My Guitar

2011-10-05T05:11:00.000-07:00

painting by Del-Bourree Bach - via pretty stuff

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. Happy news from a friend. A new, healthy baby boy.

2. After some tickles and hugs...Me, to the little boy: "I love you." Him, grinning a devilish grin: "Mac 'n Cheese." Me: "I looooove you." Him, now giggling hysterically: "Mac and Cheese!" Me, grinning and giggling too: "I love you!" Him: "I know! I love you too Mommy!" (Hard to capture that moment in writing, but I had to try. He is one precious love and a gigantic source of joy.

3. I managed to find a few minutes to spend with my guitar this week. It has been a while. My poor guitar needs a cleaning and some new strings, but that's okay. I spent some time strumming and singing. There is something so satisfying about the resulting sore fingers.

via pinterest

The Middle Place

2011-10-04T17:12:00.000-07:00

Finished this a couple weeks ago but forgot to tell you about it. It's very different from my usual read, but it was recommended to me by several friends, so I thought I'd give it a try. The Middle Place, by Kelly Corrigan. It's a memoir of a woman who battled breast cancer. At the same time that her father was also battling cancer. It's honest, and funny, and despite the topic, a pleasure to read.

Menu of the Week

2011-10-04T05:59:00.000-07:00

*Images from Cooking Light

Turkey Burritos, Black Beans - My little boy ate three gigantic plates full of this. He just kept asking for more. It's a very easy recipe - just need some ground turkey and cheese, which I often have in my freezer, and the rest of the ingredients are pantry staples. Great for a Friday night.

Creamy Squash and Apple Soup, Whole Wheat Baguette - The boys did okay with this, but they didn't gobble it up like I had hoped. Personal preference - since the apple and onion are left whole, I'd prefer dicing them, or even mashing or pureeing them instead of slicing. It's a good recipe, but I've had better butternut squash soups/chowders.

Roast Chicken, Mashed Red Potatoes, Green Beans, Salad - I'd be okay being a vegetarian, and I could do better at it than I did when I was younger. I love all kinds of vegetables, and I already try to incorporate some meatless days into our family meal plans. That said, if I ever did go back to being a vegetarian, I would miss the smell of roast chicken.

Baked Haddock, Corn on the Cob - Enjoying the last of the season's corn while we can, and taking advantage of being able to buy fish straight from the harbor. I made the fish and corn and utilized leftovers. I had fish, corn, mashed potatoes, and green beans. The big boy had fish, corn, and a burrito (strange combo but whatever - he ate it all!). The little boy had a burrito and corn. They both stole green beans off my plate, which is just fine by me.

Chicken and Strawberry Salad - Inspired by this recipe, I used some of the leftover chicken to make a dinner salad. I loosely followed this recipe, except I used feta and walnuts instead of blue cheese and cashews. The boys ate it without the lettuce and did really well with it.

Weekend Recap and Goals

2011-10-03T08:55:00.000-07:00

Another weirdly humid weekend. Where is the beautiful crisp cool autumn weather? Ah well. It'll be cold before we know it, I suppose. We had another nice, relaxing weekend. One where I managed to get a few things done around the house. I love those.

A few highlights...

*A trip to the farm, returning with a bag of Jonagold apples. My favorite. We are all eating lots of apples lately, and I haven't even been motivated to bake a pie yet.

*I roasted a chicken on Sunday, and the house smelled like a holiday. Warm, inviting, and delicious.

*The dark mornings are tough during the week, but I do appreciate them on the weekend. We are all sleeping just a little later than usual these days.

*Hanging out at the library. Watching the fish in the tank, playing at the train table and the big castle, and picking out new books to bring home. Does everybody love their local library as much as I do?

*Watching my big boy finger paint. He made a big mess, which is what it's all about, right? He also created some fabulous paintings. I need to get some frames.

Goals for this week:
1. Organize another closet. I did my office closet last week, and it felt so good. I need to keep it going.
2. Go to bed earlier. I keep adding this as a goal and failing miserably at it. I got decent sleep over the weekend, and I'm still pooped. I need more.
3. Call a friend. I hate talking on the phone, but I want to keep in touch.
4. Buy concert tickets for our next date night. Yay!
5. Slow down.

The Blind Pilot - Keep You Right

2011-09-30T05:33:00.000-07:00

Blind Pilot's new album, We Are The Tide, has been played pretty much nonstop at my house since it came out a couple weeks ago. It's awesome. Just a solid album top to bottom - it will definitely be one of my favorites of the year.

Kitchen Inspiration

2011-09-29T05:00:00.000-07:00

images by Meaghan Taylor via Made By Girl

My friend Sara sent me a link to this great post highlighting a kitchen renovation. It's a great kitchen that incorporates a lot of the same design elements we'll be using. I like the mix of open and closed cabinets, and the way they handled the corner cabinets. I just wish I had space to put my oven in a wall somewhere!

I especially loved being able to see the "before" pictures, which are not unlike my own. Part of the fun of home renovation is being able to celebrate just how far you've come. I love looking back at our own "before" pictures, like our kid's bath, master bath, living room, office, front porch, and even the yard. I will still complain about my kitchen until I am able to use my new one, but at least I can remind myself and appreciate how far this house has come.

Falling Leaves, Pink Lips, and Dance Parties

2011-09-28T05:09:00.000-07:00

picture by Katy Elliott

Can I be honest? Of course I can - it's my blog, after all, and you are all such gracious readers. Well, let me just say that there are some weeks when it can be more difficult than you'd think to come up with these beautiful things. It shouldn't be - there is such beauty everywhere, but sometimes it's harder to see. Like this week. I'm not feeling well...like I'm walking around in a daze. As I've said before, though, these are the weeks when it helps me the most.

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. I am standing at the kitchen sink, and I see leaves gracefully falling from the maple trees into the yard. There is a clear blue sky in the background, and I can just see the river across the street. The foliage is not in full effect yet, but the smaller trees are turning yellow. The forecast indicates a break in the weather, and it looks like we're in store for a more Fall-like chilly weekend. Have I mentioned my love of Fall?

2. I pass by a mirror (why? they're unavoidable sometimes) and notice I'm looking a bit bleak. I put on some Burt's Bee's tinted lip moisturizer. I love that smell and the color. I look up at myself again. Yes - much better.

3. Last night, after dinner, the boys are quietly playing when I notice a dispute about to begin (one of them wants the other one's airplane). I turn up the music and start dancing. They both stop what they're doing, jump up and join me. An impromptu dance party that leaves me breathless and laughing.

The Chaos Theory

2011-09-27T05:00:00.001-07:00

image via pinterest

I had a bit of a breakthrough last week. It was a hard week. Work is particularly busy and stressful right now, my husband was out of town, I haven't been sleeping well, and my kids decided to flip out on me a bit. Let's just say there was some screaming and things flying through the air. I couldn't figure out why they were so much harder to deal with than usual. On the occasions when this happens, I typically chalk it up to them being tired, or perhaps reacting to dad being gone. I'm sure those are factors sometimes. What I realized, though, was this:

It's me.

When I'm stressed out, I tend to handle my boys with less patience, and my reactions are harsher than they usually are (harsher than they need to be). As a result, a typically short-lived situation escalates out of control. This makes me more stressed, the kids act out more, and the downward spiral continues.

The other thing I realized - or perhaps reminded myself of - is that when I'm having a particularly busy week, the things that tend not to happen are the very things that need to happen to keep me on an even keel: sleep, exercise, those ten peaceful minutes at the end of the day... Without them, a hard week gets even harder.

It really was an "a-ha" moment for me. I know this is common sense stuff, and of course I already knew that kids get stressed out when they see mom stressed, but for some reason, I hadn't really applied it to myself in this way. This week, I've been much more conscious of the way I react to the typical brotherly situations (you know the ones I mean...when they steal toys from each other, whine about not wanting to get dressed, throw toys at each other's heads...). By reacting in a firm but calm way, the situation gets diffused so much more easily, and I remain in control. I know I will still have to deal with stress, and I will definitely lose my cool from time to time; but I have to remember that I not only have to take care of me for me, I have to take care of me so that I can do a good job of taking care of them...

Weekend Recap and Goals

2011-09-26T05:00:00.000-07:00

Hot and sticky. Certainly not what you'd expect from a September weekend in New England, and yet that's what it was. Kind of gross, actually, but at least we were able to get outside and play. We didn't have any plans, so it was pretty low-key. Just the way I like it. A few highlights...

*Puddle-stomping - I've grown to accept it.
*We watched Bridesmaids on Saturday night. After so many recommendations by friends and positive reviews about it being the "funniest movie of the year", I was a little worried that it wouldn't meet expectations, especially when it started off a little slow. Thankfully, it delivered. Giggling now just thinking about it...
*We went out to dinner on Saturday. The boys were well-behaved, enough to garner a compliment from the lady at the table next to us. "Well done", she said to me. So nice.
*I love watching my boys ride bikes (well, my big boy riding his bike - my little one still enjoys being pushed).
*While my husband and son attended a birthday party on Sunday afternoon, I enjoyed some quiet time. I was doing laundry and dishes and cooking, so it wasn't exactly relaxed, but it's a lot easier to get things done when I'm on my own. Then my little boy woke up and we played.

And now some goals:
1. More sleep. I haven't been sleeping well, and I think I may be getting a cold or fighting allergies or something. My body needs some rest.
2. Decide on my halloween costume and get the necessary supplies. I'm narrowing it down, but I'm still nervous about it. Gah! I hate the pressure!
3. Start my new book.
4. Organize a closet. Every single one of my closets needs some attention. Let's see how long it takes for me to tackle one.
5. Take those ten minutes every day to quiet my mind.

Have a great week!

Pearl Jam 20

2011-09-23T04:36:00.000-07:00

Photo by Danny Clinch via NPR

Has it really been twenty years? I still remember listening to Pearl Jam's "Ten" when it first came out. One of my guy friends had it on nonstop at his apartment. If there was a soundtrack to my senior year of high school, this album would feature prominently, along with Red Hot Chili Peppers ("Blood Sugar Sex Magik" - I still remember my mom's reaction to that album title), and Nirvana's "Nevermind". Before that, I had been in a Depeche Mode/The Cure/The Smiths (pretty depressing Brit-pop/rock) phase. I was happy to be broken out of it.

Pearl Jam has remained one of my favorite bands, I look forward to each new album, and I love to see them live. I've been flipping through the new book this week, and I'm very much looking forward to seeing Cameron Crowe's documentary, celebrating their twentieth anniversary.

Here's a little glimpse of the movie:

Coming Together from PJ20

And this post just wouldn't do without a little music. So hard to choose....but here's a cool one. An acoustic version of "Thumbing My Way".

So now I'm curious...what were you listening to your senior year of high school?

Zinnias, Corn Chowder, and Sun Salutations

2011-09-21T04:00:00.000-07:00

image via Sarah Tucker's pinterest - original source unknown

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. Happy pink and orange zinnias are currently gracing my dining room. I picked them from outside my back door. Amazing how such a little thing can light up a room and lift my mood.

2. A hot corn chowder is exactly what I wanted to have for lunch on a cool and rainy Fall afternoon. It totally hit the spot.

3. I managed to climb out of bed a little early. It gave me enough time to do some yoga before having to shower and get ready for work. I wish I could manage to do this every morning. It is such a wonderful way to start the day.

Eat Your Veggies...

2011-09-20T03:45:00.000-07:00

image from smitten kitchen

Don't you just love zucchini? It's such a versatile vegetable. Neither of my boys will eat zucchini on its own, and they've even taken to picking it out of pasta and other dishes, so I've had to get a little sneakier with it. Luckily, it's pretty easy to do. Here are a few recipes I made last week to use up several zucchini I picked up at the market. My boys ate a bunch of the green stuff!

Zucchini, Banana, and Flax Seed Muffins - My big boy helped me make these. He loves peeling and smashing bananas, and measuring out all the ingredients. We subbed in a little whole wheat flour to make them even healthier, and I increased the banana as well. These were so tasty, and we enjoyed them for breakfast. My little boy could not get enough of them.

Spaghetti and Meatballs - This is my old standby meatball recipe, but I now only use 1/2 lb turkey, along with grated zucchini and/or carrot. I only used zucchini this time, so they were a bit green, but once they were covered in sauce, nobody was the wiser. They went down just as fast (and made just as big a mess) as they always do.

Goat Cheese and Roasted Corn Quesadillas - My boys love these quesadillas, so I thought I'd take a chance by dicing up some zucchini and cooking it along with the corn. It worked, and they were really good too!

Weekend Recap and Goals

2011-09-19T06:00:00.000-07:00

Ah...another gorgeous Fall weekend in New England. It's not even technically Fall yet, but it certainly feels like it. We actually had to turn our heat on this weekend! It's getting down to "brrrr" temperatures at night now, and the days are getting very noticeably shorter, but the days are still beautiful. Warm, happy sun.

Highlights from the weekend:

*We met friends at the farmer's market, and the boys ran around with their friends while we bought veggies. *The friends joined us at home for lunch and more playtime.

*Saturday night Date Night! We enjoyed a long, leisurely dinner. It had been too long, so we ordered drinks, appetizers, dinner, and desserts...relishing an intimate, kid-free dinner. Oh, and I had lobster gnocchi with truffle oil, and it was divine.

*We went to a 10 o'clock movie - can't remember the last time we did that either. And we both stayed awake!

*We got a lot done around the house. Boring stuff, but stuff that feels good to have done. Meanwhile, the boys played and enjoyed the outdoors.

*I stayed up way too late watching the Emmys. Why do I do this? I always regret it the next day when I have to get out of bed, and yet I can't resist award shows. I love seeing my favorites get recognized for being awesome. I was so happy for Kyle Chandler (I've always loved him, and really loved Friday Night Lights), and Modern Family, and Kate Winslet (Is it wrong to admit that I might be just a tad in love with her?), and those comedic actresses (They had me crying tears of laughter when they all went up on stage). Do you get sucked into award shows too?

Goals for this week:

1. More kickboxing. Kickboxing has been my exercise of choice lately, with a side dose of yoga. I love how sore my butt is as a result.

2. Get my car fixed. Did I mention I was rear-ended the day after returning from vacation? Welcome back to reality. Bleh.

3. Line up another date-night. Really, it had been too long, and I was reminded how important they are.
4. Figure out what to be for Halloween. We were invited to a Halloween party this year - costumes required. I love the joy of Halloween for kids, but I loathe the pressure of Halloween for adults, and I hate dressing up. So if you have any ideas for what my husband and I can dress up as, suggestions are greatly appreciated.
5. Start looking at holiday cards. It feels early, but it always creeps up on me, and I'd rather not wait until the last minute.

Laura Marling - Sophia

2011-09-16T05:38:00.000-07:00

Laura Marling 'Sophia'

I've only had a couple days with Laura Marling's latest album, entitled A Creature I Don't Know, but I already love it. Love watching her fingers move across the guitar in the video, too. Enjoy, and have a fabulous weekend!

via last.fm

Recently Read: Bright's Passage, by Josh Ritter

2011-09-15T05:06:00.000-07:00

Josh Ritter is an amazing songwriter, and I'm a big fan of his music; so when I heard he had written a novel, I knew I had to check it out. Many of his songs contain stories themselves, and I was interested to see how his writing would come across in a book.

At first, I will admit that I found some of the writing a little...clunky. But then he hit his stride, and this quirky little story pulled me in. My husband was lured as well - he happened to pick up the book while we were on vacation and ended up continuing to pull it away from me to read more.

Bright's Passage is about a man named Henry Bright, who has recently returned from World War I, and the angel who has followed him home. The chapters alternate between his time in the war and present day, which finds him back in West Virginia and alone with his newborn son. He is being hunted by his wife's father, a creepy old man who calls himself 'The Colonel', and idiot brothers.

It is an entertaining read throughout, but I will admit that the ending is rather unsatisfying. I agree with some of the reviews I've read, indicating that there are many obvious flaws with the book, reflecting the fact that this is the author's first attempt at a novel. That said, I'd still recommend it, and I am looking forward to Josh's second attempt.

Here's a link to the NY Times Book Review.

Wedding Memories, Golden Delicious Apples, and Bedtime

2011-09-14T05:07:00.000-07:00

via Mary Swensen's Pinterest

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. My wedding day was nine years ago today. It was a glorious September day. All my friends and family gathered, we enjoyed a very quick ceremony, and then the celebration began. We danced and drank and laughed and cried and hugged and kissed and danced some more. It was a very good day.

2. We picked apples at the farm last weekend. Several varieties were ripe, but we chose golden delicious. My big boy loves them and keeps asking, "Mom, can I have another delicious apple?"

3. Lately, my boys have been sitting together on a chair while I read stories at bedtime. Sometimes quietly, often not. Still, it's one of those moments I want to freeze in my mind. Then when I put my little guy in his crib, my big boy climbs up the side and asks, "Can I give you a hug and a kiss night-night?" N stands up and they hug and kiss, and my cheeks hurt from smiling.

Kitchen Inspiration and House Update

2011-09-13T06:05:00.000-07:00

by Mahoney Architects & Interiors

Well, we had another design meeting about our future renovation. It was all fun and excitement until we started talking money. Then my head started to hurt. Later that morning, I found myself looking at houses online, because surely it would make more sense to buy a new house instead of spending so much to fix up this one? Alas, I reconfirmed an irrefutable fact: Houses are really freaking expensive here. Once the initial shock wore off, I told them they had to simplify the plans a bit in order to reduce the cost. We're meeting again at the end of the month.

The cost sucks, but I'm trying to remain focused on the fact that we want to make this old house a home. A place we will love to be. So putting the cost aside, the plans are very exciting. We have a lot of decisions to make. For example, the current plans have a traditional island in the middle of the kitchen. Due to lack of real estate, the stove will be in the island. The other alternative, though, is to go with a u-shaped layout, similar to the one above, except the stove would be facing the seating area and the refrigerator would be on the other side. I'm thinking we'll stick with the original plans, but now I'm considering...

Other things I like about this kitchen: the stools (definitely going with something like these), and the microwave cabinet. Where do you have your microwave? I want to get mine off the countertop, but I'm running out of cabinet space!

Much, much more to come in the adventures of House Renovation 2012...

Settling Down...

2011-09-12T03:48:00.000-07:00

joy williams, photo credit: allister ann

Since coming back from vacation, I've found it very difficult to get back into our normal routine. I guess the routine sorts itself out, but personally I haven't felt settled. Our vacation was less relaxation and more adventure, the travel itself was exhausting, and because we were delayed coming home, we had to jump head first back into work/school without any time for reentry. The next weekend was a quick and fun trip to Maine, but it again thwarted real time to decompress. Only now, a week and a half later, am I starting to feel the pieces come back together. We're not quite there yet, though. I still have piles of stuff throughout the house that need to be sorted, and my mind seems to be churning too fast to be still.

I've also been getting sucked into the vast internet black hole. I love my blog, and pinterest, and facebook, but it can be a bit too consuming at times. I have to remind myself to limit my online time and make sure I'm using it in a fulfilling way. There is lots of inspiration out here in the blogosphere, so I don't mind spending time reading here, but again, it needs to be limited. After this post back in the Spring, I did a "reader cleanup", and the result was wonderful. The number of blogs started creeping back up, so I just went out and cleaned it up again - perhaps it's one of those things I'll need to do a couple times a year. Now, what I find in my reader is beautiful - inspiring, entertaining, full of content, like-minded people...

Good reminders...via Dear Inspiration

Thankfully, the weekend was a quiet one. Just me and my boys, at home. We did venture out - to a town festival on Saturday and apple-picking at the farm down the road on Sunday. But those are small events, easy enough to leave the mind uncluttered with planning and preparing. Otherwise, we just hung out and played. The usual bubbles, bikes, and balls. The weather was typical September gorgeousness - clear blue skies, warm in the sun, cool in the shade. Perfection. I felt us all soak in the quiet, the routine, even the sleep; and as a result, we were all in the most pleasant moods. Let's hope we can all carry them into the coming week.

photo by Sarah Maingot, via

Paris!

2011-09-09T05:25:00.000-07:00

Due to delays in Florence, and a little hurricane back home, we were forced to spend a few extra days in Europe. In order to get back a few days earlier, we chose to fly to Paris and spend a couple days there before heading home. It was an expensive little detour, my kids were exhausted, and I was down to my last diaper. But a couple days in Paris? I'll take it.

Radda/Lecchi

2011-09-08T03:45:00.000-07:00

I promise I'll stop posting about my vacation soon. Really. I am having a lot of fun going through the pictures and thinking about the fun we had (and I'm already able to laugh at the hard parts).

Our villa was about ten minutes from a town called Radda. We hadn't heard anything about Radda and therefore had no expectations of it, other than we knew it had a grocery store and a recommended pizza place. Turns out, it's a really gorgeous town with a lot to offer! Lecchi was a village even closer by, and it had a cute pub, market, and an awesome restaurant.

Just a few highlights to remember:

There was a great playground - especially towards the end of our week, it was great to limit the driving and stay closer to the house. The boys loved the playground, and we got a chance to walk around the town a bit.
The best pizza we had was in Radda at a place appropriately called "Pizza Pie". Seriously, seriously good pizza.
The best meal we had was in Lecchi. The restaurant had garden seating, and it was right next to a little park, so when the boys were finished and got restless, they were able to go run around while we finished our meal and enjoyed our wine. Really amazing food, great wine, and just a nice time.

Siena

2011-09-07T05:30:00.000-07:00

Are you tiring of all my pictures yet? A few more to go - they're all so beautiful!

Mostly pictures this time. Our main highlight from the day in Siena was lunch. We decided to pick up sandwiches, chips, and fruit, and we ate in the shade of a castle courtyard. Not a bad way to enjoy a meal.

Weekend Recap

2011-09-06T08:37:00.000-07:00

Ah, September. How I do adore September. The beginning of warm days and cool nights, crisp air and clear blue skies. We decided to celebrate the beginning of this glorious month by heading back up to Maine for a couple days. Yes, I know we just got home from a big trip, and we were all still very tired, but it was still very worth doing. Nothing compares to the joy I see on my boys' faces when they are playing at the beach.

I was so grateful for that extra day this weekend. We came home on Sunday, which allowed us to have a full day of being at home. No plans, except several more loads of laundry. We all needed it, and we all appreciated being able to hang out. The boys rode their bikes, played with bubbles, threw frisbees....they just played. I played with them, and I also continued to put our house back in order. Suitcases away for a while.

Now that we're home, my mind has shifted its focus towards the upcoming fall and winter seasons. I am deciding on Halloween costumes, thinking about holiday plans, and looking forward to a homemade apple pie sometime very soon.

San Gimignano

2011-09-06T03:43:00.000-07:00

Let's start by saying that I've already blocked out the ride to this adorable town. And now that I'm sitting in a nice cool house, I can imagine it wasn't quite as scorching hot as it was. San Gimignano is a very quaint old village, containing 14 large towers like the ones you see above. Centuries ago, at its peak, there were 72 towers! Can you imagine? How intimidating it must have been to look up the hill at all those towers.

The gelato was especially appreciated on such a hot day. We walked through the village, seeking out the shade whenever possible. We perused the shops and purchased new wallets, as well as little toy motorcycles for each of the boys. Those proved to be very popular for the rest of the trip. Later that week, we discovered that the white wine in our fridge was made here!

Casanuova di Ama

2011-09-02T05:47:00.000-07:00

After a few lovely days in Firenze, we picked up our gigantic van and ventured out to the tuscan countryside. I reaffirmed my hatred of GPS, but we eventually did make it to our villa. It had lots of rooms, a large patio with table and grill, beautiful views, and a refreshing pool.

One of my favorite things about this trip was getting to see my boys playing with their cousin. They are still very young, so the concepts of sharing and playing gently are lessons still being learned. However, they are getting to be old enough to really interact and get to know one another, and I love that they love each other. My sister lives an ocean away, and we don't get to see each other as often as I'd like; so I'm very happy and grateful that our families were able to take such a big trip together.

Other highlights:

Have I mentioned that it was HOT in Italy? Thank goodness for that awesome pool. It felt so good to get cool and swim, and the boys had a blast.
After our road adventures, my little guy has begun to exclaim "We made it!" at every stop.
My little guy called the pool the "cool". As in, "Mom, let's go to the cool." Love.
The husbands took charge of grilling, and we ate some fabulous meals. I discovered that grilled eggplant is incredibly yummy. I never make it at home, because had been under the impression that my husband didn't like it. Evidently, that is not the case, so I expect to see lots of eggplant on our grill next summer.
Casanuova di Ama is a tiny hamlet with 12 houses, including a couple vineyards and olive oil producers. I spent time one afternoon with my little one, watching a man unload a crate of wine bottles.
We kept missing the sunsets but finally managed to enjoy a spectacular one while the boys jumped on the beds.

Firenze

2011-09-01T05:30:00.000-07:00

I should warn you now. There are a lot of pictures. An impossible amount of beauty to capture, and I didn't even scratch the surface, since I didn't have a lot of time to focus on taking pictures.

I'll also be very honest here and tell you that there were a few moments on the trip when I thought we had made a mistake in choosing our destination. It was difficult to manage three little boys at times - driving through the tuscan hills, eating in restaurants, walking a lot along old stone streets, etc. But I can also honestly say that it was totally worth it. In this post and the ones to follow, I'm going to capture the highlights of the trip, focusing on the amazing parts and forgetting the challenges.

Firenze (I think once you've visited, it is no longer Florence but forever Firenze)

David - It was the one thing I really wanted to see, and he did not disappoint. Our tour through the Accademia Gallery was brief (it can be scary trying to keep little boys from touching things they shouldn't), but it was long enough for me to appreciate this big gorgeous statue. I probably had a unique experience, holding a two-year-old at the time. My little guy appreciated him too, pointing out all his parts: "Mom look! His knees, and hands, and penis, and nose..."
Riding the double-decker tour bus. Fun for the kids, and a great way for us to see the city
That Duomo - simply stunning
Adjusting quickly - My kids slept 15 hours the first night and never looked back.
The first taste of real Italian gelato. I tried melon, which was awesome. We kept our promise to the boys and ate gelato every single day.
The carousel - it was definitely a highlight for the kids
Horse carriage ride - The kids loved it and it was nice to take a break from walking
Palazzo Vecchio - Looking at the gorgeous building and statues, my little one exclaimed, "Look Mom! A crane!" The cranes made quite the impression on my little guy.
Picnic in the Boboli gardens
Alone-time - My sister and I did not get enough of it, but we did venture out one evening on our own. In the heat, we walked across the Ponte Vecchio, listening to an Italian musician singing U2 covers. We then enjoyed a glass of wine before heading back to our apartment and the much-appreciated air-conditioning.

Ciao! Bonjour!

2011-08-31T12:11:00.000-07:00

Hello! After ten wonderful days in Italy followed by a couple bonus days in France, we are finally back at home. It was a fabulous trip, with bits of "what the hell were we thinking, bringing three little boys to Tuscany?" and "what do you mean you can't get us home for days?" mixed in. It all brought a tremendous sense of adventure and even accomplishment. We did, in fact, all survive. Now that I'm home, I am able to remember the good and laugh at the crazy.

I have about six loads of laundry to wash, a full email inbox at work, and an empty refrigerator. Oh, and very tired little boys. But I still plan to spend some quality time with my pictures so that I can share some with you here very soon. It's good to be home.

Unbroken - by Laura Hillenbrand

2011-08-25T06:37:00.000-07:00

I haven't posted a book in a while, because I try to include only the ones I would recommend to my friends. Unbroken, by Laura Hillenbrand, is definitely one of these. The book is the astonishing true story of Louie Zamperini. It tells the story of his life, starting at his home in Torrance, California, where he was a deviant kid causing all sorts of trouble until he began running. He became an Olympic runner, running in the 1936 Olympics. He was training for the 1940 Olympics when he joined the war, becoming a bombardier. His plane was shot down over the Pacific, and only he and two other crewmen survived the crash. They floated adrift for 47 days, surviving an ordeal that none of us can even imagine, only to be picked up by the Japanese when they eventually did reach land. He was taken to a POW camp, where he spent the rest of the war enduring torture, disease, and near starvation. The story takes us all the way through his return from Japan, and it makes me happy to know that this 93-year-old man is still alive.

His story is absolutely remarkable, and Laura Hillenbrand does an excellent job telling it. As she did with Seabiscuit, she writes a real history with the detail and pacing of fiction. It is gripping, and I was completely hooked. I decided I had to finish it before the trip, so I read the entire thing in only a few days. It wasn't hard to do, because I really didn't want to put it down.

Here's a link to the NY Times book review.

Exploring New Places, Quality Time, and Gratitude

2011-08-24T06:08:00.000-07:00

This week's Three Beautiful Things:

1. I'm on vacation, in a beautiful place where I've never been. Learning Italian words, enjoying Italian wine and food, exploring Italian towns, and eating gelato every day.

2. I'm spending good quality time with my gorgeous boys, sister, brother-in-law, and nephew.

3. I'm so grateful to have the opportunity to take such a grand adventure with my family. I won't be happy for it to end, but I'll look forward to sharing some of it with you here.

*Pictures are from the lovely Sarah Tucker. Looking forward to posting my own pics when I get back!